Why the random crushes.....

Alright I think I have figure out my random crush mindset.

So you know how it seems that I crush on every guy friend I have had (okay well it sorta seems like that to me), I was wondering why this was. Is it that I think every guy on the planet is attractive? Is it because I am looking for a guy any chance I get because I am depreate? Is it just because I become friends with them, that I automaticcaly think they have some sort of romantic interest? The answer all of these is no.

I finally figured out the answer.

Now some of the time, I end up developing a crush just like out of the blue like a sudden ah-ha moment. But I figured out what ends up happening with me most of the time.

When you meet a person, you automatically take note of several things about them and rate them....you do this without even noticing. For me, with males, I think I make some sort of mental note when I meet a guy and then later hang out with a guy the first time...something to the effect of..."hey, he's pretty cute and seems like an awesome guy....I woder if I could ever date him." A few times I know I have done this. Sometimes after this intial thought I will hang out with the guy a few more times and I see that he isn't dateable (ie. girlfriend, lack of respect for women, etc).

Well maybe figuring out my thought process a bit better will help me land a date. For some reason over the past few days I've really been ansty to go out on a date, I think it's becasue I have been hanging out with a few "couples". Actually maybe it's not so much wanting to go on a date as to to be "wanted", romatically speaking.

Oh well, I am pretty happy being single...I think you have to be to find someone to be with....funny that.