The hot girl at the nightclub

I should talk about the party I went to first...

One of my now former (*sniff* I'm going to miss Richard-san) staff members put a littl shin-dig together at his friends house. It was pretty fun, we sat around listen to music, played poker, just had a good time. I knew everyone except two or three people.

I invited Londyn, Ben, and Jeff to the party. It kinda scares me that Ben gets along so well with Richard, I guess it's like how Ben is scared I get along so well with Dixie.

We played some Halo and I feel sorry for Jeff and Londyn, I shouldn't have picked up and energy sword so early in the game, that weapon is so unbalanced. I hope they had fun playing though.

I am really glad that my friends came and that all of them got along so well with my other group of friends.

So my hot girl at the nightclub story...
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apparently I'm that hot girl.

Heidi (my older sister) has been wanting to take me out clubbing since I turned 21. So she and her boyfriend Rob took me out to a couple of clubs. It was nice cause we got in for free (Weds night is ladies night) and we got free drinks. I wore my pink and black flower print, 1950's looking dress and my cute new maryjanes. I curled my hair a little and had just a smidgen of lipstick.

So we went to Club Aiya and just hung out and I danced a little to a few techno songs. It seemed like guys were checking me out, but I thought it was just my imagination. Then we decided to hop over to Club Hearthrob.

Not two minutes in the door at Hearthrob, I was standing there sipping on a drink my sister ordered me and this tall, fairly good looking guy asks me if I want to dance. I am totally shocked. I have NEVER had a guy ask me to dance, in fact guys never ask me to do anything dance, go out on a date, etc.

Anyway where was I...?....oh right, so I am totally flabbergastered. So I said "Maybe later...I'll be on the dance floor, you'll be able to find me." It took a couple of times I said this to get him to go away.

Heidi took me to go meet people. DJ Frosty was the DJ that night, we chatted a little about music and he let me pick a few requests...too bad he was never able to find that Tim Deluxe song I love...he did play a few tunes I liked.

As I am standing there, another good looking guy comes over. I never figured out if he was from Pakistan or India but somewhere in that area. Now, for one thing, I can tell he's been in the states for a while cause he has guts, an accent and guts. I have hung out with ISA and other desis to know that typically, 99% of the time, and Indian guy will think you cute and not do a damn thing about it.

Gah! My mother is buggin me to get off the machine so we can go to the mall...alright well I will tell you in one sentence a recap and then fill in details later....
Went to Hearthrob, had a few guys hitting me and wanting to get my number and such, flatter and flabbergasted I was totaly teased and they never got what they wanted, and the reason I was a tease, I was thinking of someone else (which might be a lame excuse and I am not even sure if they guy I am thinking of would be interested in me at all...but he seems to indicate he would.)

[Edits post on 12/14 to finish it]

Alright so yeah so this Indian guy hit on me for a while and then I left and went out onto the dance floor. As I was dancing I had a few men come and try to dance with me, I caught a couple guys that just were starring at me. Apparently dance moves you learn from gay men and go-go dancers are sexy moves.

So I hung out with Heidi and Rob for a bit and the Indian guy came back. He told me he's living in Boulder. Several times he tried to get me to dance but I kept changing the subject (plus the music was bump and grind, which as I tried to explain, I can't and won't dance to). I found out he just graduated from CU with a Mechanical Engineering and Math degree. Lives on Broadway. I kept resisting him hitting on me and just tried for a nice coversation, he sensed I was resisting. "So, what? Do you have a boyfriend?", he asked. "(me blatenly lying) Uh sort of, there is a guy I am seeing right now." I really should have tried the lesbian lie, but I wasn't up to par.

This guy told me I looked really nice. Until he asked my name, he called me the "very pretty girl in the lovely dress". He asked if maybe he could get my number, we could go out for coffee....I kept avoiding it....he also asked if we could go somewhere right now and talk about it. Luckily it was about this time that Heidi and Rob deicded we should leave and we took off.

I got sick later that night/morning, first time I have puked after drinking. So did Heidi. We think that maybe one of the bartenders slipped something in our drinks because we never left our drinks alone.

So yeah I am not really totally sure why I was so uncofortable with this guy hitting on me. I think part of it was shock, another thing was I really wasn't interested in him but didn't really have a good reason to tell him to buzz off, and I think another thing is that I have a crush on someone right now (I know, I am a dork.). I have given up on the whole "asking guys out" thing, it never works and I would like to be chased after for once.

Anyway so apparently I am sexy. And actually walking around this eveninng, I felt like the sexiest girl in the world. I think that is what attracted those guys at the club, I am starting to get some real self confidence and just having fun and not worrying about trying to be attached or picking someone up.